The Initiation.
one-to-one
in Costa Rica
Not a Course. Not a Framework. An Initiation.
This is private, one-to-one work for men who are done handling it alone. We start with your body. We move through the things you’ve never said out loud. And we finish in person, in my world, in Costa Rica. It’s your work. If you want your partner in the room at some point, she’s welcome.
Safety. Your Body Stops Bracing.
Before a man can be felt by others, he has to be able to hold himself.
We work on Daily structure: breath, movement, sleep · Cleaning up dopamine loops and compulsive habits · Somatic practice: getting back into your body · Co-regulation: your system learning safety again
- You can settle yourself under pressure, at work and in bed
- Sleep and energy come back
- Your body starts to trust itself again
- Less bracing before you’re even touched
Truth. Where the Loop Breaks.
You stop trying to be a man. And start experiencing yourself as one.
We work on Performance anxiety, and the fear of it happening again · Shame, and the story underneath it · Desire: what you actually want, not what you think you should want · Emotional expression: clean, direct, real
- Sex stops feeling like a test
- A difficult moment in bed stops becoming a spiral
- You know what you want, and you can say it
- Feelings come out clean, not performed or swallowed
Intimacy. Bringing It Home.
This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering who you were before the world taught you to disconnect.
We work on Honest conversation with your partner, with an optional joint session · Initiating from desire, not duty · Boundaries from your values, not your reactions · Taking the same calm into your work and leadership
- You initiate again
- You can tell her what’s going on without shutting down
- She feels you, and you feel her
- You lead from calm, not from pressure
3 Days. Private. In My World.
This isn’t a group retreat. It’s you and me, in the jungle and by the ocean in Nosara. Breath, movement, fire, silence and honest conversation. No group, no schedule built for anyone else. Just the two of us.
The three months build the capacity. The three days are where you feel it in your body and walk away different. Included in The Initiation, and timed around your life, usually at the close of month three.
This is for you if
- You’ve built a good life and you’re tired of performing inside it
- Sex has started to feel like pressure, a test, or something you avoid
- You’re in your head when you want to be in your body
- Your partner feels far away, and you want her back
- You’ve tried pills, books or therapy and something still hasn’t shifted
- You were never initiated. You just aged
- You’re ready to take full responsibility and do real work
This isn’t for you if
- You want a quick fix or a technique course
- You’re looking for someone to replace medical or psychological care
- You want to learn how to attract women
“I’d spent years being the man everyone could lean on. I had no idea how to let anyone see that I was struggling. In our work, I finally said things out loud that I’d been carrying alone. I still have hard days, but I don’t disappear behind “I’m fine” anymore.”
Weekly 1:1 sessions · Voice note access between calls · Daily practices built for you · Optional partner session · 3 private days in Costa Rica
By conversation only. If it’s not the right fit, I’ll tell you, and I’ll point you to who might be.
Book a Private ConversationCan’t travel? Tell me on our call. We’ll find a way.
Is this therapy?
No. It’s mentorship. I’ll refer you if you need clinical support.
Do I have to bring my partner?
No. The partner session is optional, and only when you’re ready.
Where are the 3 days?
Nosara, Costa Rica. Details of travel and what’s included are covered on our call.
Become the Man Who Can Hold Life.
One-to-one. Just you and me. 3 months, 3 days in Costa Rica, and one conversation to start.
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